when in truth we have perfectly lovely grass in our own yard
Why do I sometimes focus more on what my kids "aren't" rather than what they "are"?
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Anita
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Being a mom is a hard job...so much to teach them and prepare them for to get ready for adulthood. It's easy to focus on what they don't know yet or haven't accomplished yet..sometimes we forget that God has already given them so many things (gifts and such) that we had nothing to do with at all.
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#1 (girl) - eighteen - college student; mostly cheery; mostly soft spoken; 'the logical one'; artistic; secretly wishes she were an only child;
#2 (boy) - sixteen - football player, golfer, loves to throw a ball into the air, especially in the living room near the breakables; nothing is ever his fault; has soft, sweet eyes of a baby deer; seeing him hold a baby is the sweetest thing ever.
#3 (girl) - fourteen - sweet and thoughtful pleaser; is very attentive and has incredible insight; Attention: swan emerging; incredible celtic fiddle player who can pick up a tune in a jiffy; life with a older sister has jaded her; has feelings that are as tender as baby lettuce.
#4 (boy) - "now we are 8" - wide open all day, every day, all the time; suffers from a Napoleonic complex; has the ability to surprise you with a refreshingly thoughtful act; eyes turn into crescent shapes when he flashes that smile which is as big as all outdoors.
#5 (girl) - seven - knows her own mind; likes to do it "all by myselth".
"I" - gray-haired bystander and scribe; chief cook and bottle washer; prolific comma splicer; a sucker for a smile from one of the above mentioned; bumbling through this world trying to make saints out of all us sinners.
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Being a mom is a hard job...so much to teach them and prepare them for to get ready for adulthood. It's easy to focus on what they don't know yet or haven't accomplished yet..sometimes we forget that God has already given them so many things (gifts and such) that we had nothing to do with at all.
sometimes it's not so bad to look at what people "aren't."
i can list a raft of things your kids aren't (and thank goodness):
rude
greedy
stupid
boring
ugly
unfunny
unlovable
unflushable
i could go on, but you get the idea here.
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